Something inside so strong

November 16, 2007 – 11:51 am

The higher you build your barriers
The taller I become
The farther you take my rights away
The faster I will run
You can deny me
You can decide to turn your face away
No matter, cos there’s….

Something inside so strong
I know that I can make it
Tho’ you’re doing me wrong, so wrong
You thought that my pride was gone
Oh no, something inside so strong
Oh oh oh oh oh something inside so strong

The more you refuse to hear my voice
The louder I will sing
You hide behind walls of Jericho
Your lies will come tumbling
Deny my place in time
You squander wealth that’s mine
My light will shine so brightly
It will blind you
Cos there’s……

Something inside so strong
I know that I can make it
Tho’ you’re doing me wrong, so wrong
You thought that my pride was gone
Oh no, something inside so strong
Oh oh oh oh oh something inside so strong

Brothers and sisters
When they insist we’re just not good enough
When we know better
Just look ‘em in the eyes and say
I’m gonna do it anyway
I’m gonna do it anyway

Something inside so strong
And I know that I can make it
Tho’ you’re doing me wrong, so wrong
You thought that my pride was gone
Oh no, something inside so strong
Oh oh oh oh oh something inside so strong

Brothers and sisters
When they insist we’re just good not enough
When we know better
Just look ‘em in the eyes and say
I’m gonna do it anyway
I’m gonna do it anyway
I’m gonna do it anyway
I’m gonna do it anyway

Because there’s something inside so strong
And I know that I can make it
Tho’ you’re doing me, so wrong
You thought that my pride was gone
Oh no, something inside so strong
Oh oh oh oh oh something inside so strong

Because there’s something inside so strong
And I know that I can make it
Tho’ you’re doing me, so wrong
You thought that my pride was gone
Oh no, something inside so strong
Oh oh oh oh oh something inside so strong


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Never let anyone tell you you can’t do something

November 16, 2007 – 11:50 am

Taken from ‘The Pursuit of Happyness’


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Vince Lombardi - more than just a coach…

November 12, 2007 – 3:56 pm

Thanks Dave for bringing this one to the CFE… This guy was way more than just an Amercian football coach…

If you haven’t checked out this guy before , I would strongly recommend it. I am not a fan of American football but Vince was basically the Alex Ferguson, Brian Clough of the sport he won everything. However it appears he was more than a coach as these quotes confirm

Quotes about Intensity
“There’s only one way to succeed in anything, and that is to give it everything. I do, and I demand that my players do.”

“If you aren’t fired with enthusiasm, you’ll be fired with enthusiasm.”

“Mental toughness is essential to success.”

“You never win a game unless you beat the guy in front of you. The score on the board doesn’t mean a thing. That’s for the fans. You’ve got to win the war with the man in front of you. You’ve got to get your man

Quotes about Sacrifice
“To achieve success, whatever the job we have, we must pay a price.”

“Success is like anything worthwhile. It has a price. You have to pay the price to win and you have to pay the price to get to the point where success is possible. Most important, you must pay the price to stay there.”

“Football is a great deal like life in that it teaches that work, sacrifice, perseverance, competitive drive, selflessness and respect for authority is the price that each and every one of us must pay to achieve any goal that is worthwhile.”

“Once you agree upon the price you and your family must pay for success, it enables you to ignore the minor hurts, the opponent’s pressure, and the temporary failures.”

Quotes about Belief
“Confidence is contagious and so is lack of confidence, and a customer will recognize both.”

“If you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done.”

“Unless a man believes in himself and makes a total commitment to his career and puts everything he has into it-his mind, his body and his heart-what is life worth to him? If I were a salesman, I would make this commitment to my company, to the product and most of all, to myself.”

Quotes about Commitment
“The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.”

“Once a man has made a commitment to a way of life, he puts the greatest strength in the world behind him. It’s something we call heart power. Once a man has made this commitment, nothing will stop him short of success.”

“Unless a man believes in himself and makes a total commitment to his career and puts everything he has into it-his mind, his body, his heart-what’s life worth to him?”

Quotes about Discipline
“I’ve never known a man worth his salt who in the long run, deep down in his heart, didn’t appreciate the grind, the discipline. There is something good in men that really yearns for discipline.”

“The good Lord gave you a body that can stand most anything. It’s your mind you have to convince.”

“Mental toughness is many things and rather difficult to explain. Its qualities are sacrifice and self-denial. Also, most importantly, it is combined with a perfectly disciplined will that refuses to give in. It’s a state of mind-you could call it character in action.”

“Once you learn to quit, it becomes a habit.”

“Perfection is not attainable. But if we chase perfection, we can catch excellence.”

Quotes about Desire
“The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will.”

“The spirit, the will to win and the will to excel-these are the things that endure and these are the qualities that are so much more important than any of the events that occasion them.”

“It is essential to understand that battles are primarily won in the hearts of men. Men respond to leadership in a most remarkable way and once you have won his heart, he will follow you anywhere.”

“A man can be as great as he wants to be. If you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done.”

“If you’ll not settle for anything less than your best, you will be amazed at what you can accomplish in your lives.

“It’s not whether you get knocked down, it’s whether you get up.”


Stop Coasting

November 6, 2007 – 10:15 am

To develop yourself as a person, and maximise the positive improvements in your life you must start to apply yourself in whatever you are doing. This could be at the gym, in PU, at work, with your family. Don’t just coast through life; put effort in to maximise the results you achieve.

An ex-student of mine, and a great bloke, Spencer Horsey told me in a workshop

“Train for the impossible and the difficult will become easy.”

While not exactly the same, I believe there are a lot of common principles with this quote and what I am trying to say.

Stop coasting and start pushing yourself.

If you use the gym, don’t just have a 45 minute workout so you can say to yourself “I have done it.” Go to the gym and spend 45 minutes doing heavy weights with exceptional form. Don’t leave the gym with a light sweat, leave dripping in sweat knowing that you gave everything you had to the workout.

At work, don’t just do enough to get by and collect your monthly pay cheque. Make sure that you give your absolute best while you are there. Aim to be the best in your team and the best in your department. (If you job is boring you to the point where you cannot increase your motivation, are you doing the right job?)

When you are boxing; you are 2 minutes into the round and you are exhausted. Your entire body wants to stop and rest. DON’T DO IT. You only cheat yourself. Push yourself to the limit and you tell me how you feel when that final bell sounds.

You don’t get a second chance at life, so make your experience the best it can be.

My Mindset: “I want to be the best”

“Train for the impossible and the difficult will become easy”. [Credit, Spencer H.]

If you aim to reach a certain level, you may hit that level or you may come up short. If you aim for the very top, you probably will come up short, but you will get a lot farther than if you stayed within safe bounds.

I aim to be the very best at whatever I do. It doesn’t matter how big or small the task or activity is I want to do it to the very best of my ability.

• When learning how to box, I want to be the fittest, fastest, hardest puncher… I put my everything I have into my boxing training to make sure I improve faster than everyone else; and I do.

• At work, I don’t want to hit my target, I want to be the best salesman on the floor. I aim to smash my targets to pieces. I set my own targets far above what the business deems to be sufficient and then I work like hell to hit them.

• If I go paint-balling, I want to shoot the most people and come out with the highest score.

• I want my social circle to be filled with charismatic, deep, good people who enrich and add to my life experience. I will cut out anyone who has a negative influence on me. When it comes to women, I will not settle for second best. I want the most intelligent, vibrant, beautiful girls to be a part of my life.

You only get one crack at this life; one chance to make a life you can be proud of. I want to look back at my life and think to myself: “I gave it absolutely everything I had to make it the best it can possibly be.”

Peace,
Phil x


Too busy for a friend?

November 2, 2007 – 5:18 pm

We so often get caught up in the rat race that we forget to let people know how much they mean to us. I absolutely loved this story.

Phil

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.

Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.

It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.

That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. ‘Really?’ she heard whispered. ‘I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!’ and, ‘I didn’t know others liked me so much,’ were most of the comments.

No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn’t matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.

Several years later, one of the students was killed in Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.

The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.

As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. ‘Were you Mark’s math teacher?’ he asked. She nodded: ‘yes.’ Then he said: ‘Mark talked about you a lot.’

After the funeral, most of Mark’s former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark’s mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher.

‘We want to show you something,’ his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket ‘They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.’

Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark’s classmates had said about him.

‘Thank you so much for doing that,’ Mark’s mother said. ‘As you can see, Mark treasured it.’

All of Mark’s former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, ‘I still have my list. It’s in the top drawer of my desk at home.’

Chuck’s wife said, ‘Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album.’

‘I have mine too,’ Marilyn said. ‘It’s in my diary’

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. ‘I carry this with me at all times,’ Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: ‘I think we all saved our lists’

That’s when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.

The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don’t know when that one day will be.

So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late.

Seize the opportunity to do something nice and beautiful.

Remember, you reap what you sow. What you put into the lives of others comes back into your own.


An unbelievable story from someone you might not expect…

October 30, 2007 – 10:19 am


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What is man capable of…

October 26, 2007 – 1:35 pm

Thanks to Mark for bringing this story to the CFE… an incredibly powerful story of what man is capable of… This is a long read, but it’s special.

Enjoy,

Phil

1997 World Deca-Ironman Championships

Location: Monterrey, Mexico, Central America
Distances: 24 mile swim, 1120 mile bike, 262 mile run (non-stop!)
Why?: Why not?

This is the ultimate test of endurance, the toughest race on the planet. To finish a race like this you need to be extremely fit and tough- both physically and mentally. I wanted to test my mental and physical levels of endurance to the ABSOLUTE LIMIT. Too many people in life don’t reach their full potential. I never want to have regrets at the end of my life that I have not been the best I can be.The Deca-Ironman is the ultimate test. I wanted to be part of it. Simple.

Training prior to the race: It is impossible to be fully prepared for such a race. You can only do so much physical training. I tried to focus on training my mind to prepare it for such a hard race.

These are some of the things I did:

- I knew that the maximum amount of sleep I was going to get in one go during the race would be 1 hour. So to get used to sleeping for an hour I used to go to bed at night say at 10pm and set my alarm for 11pm. When I woke up at 11pm I used to set my alarm for 12pm, wake up at 12pm and then set my alarm for 1am. I would then do this all night until it was time for me to get up. After 6 weeks of doing this I didn’t even need an alarm. My body clock had adjusted itself to sleeping for exactly 1 hour at a time.

-Once a week I would ride my indoor bike trainer all night right through the night and then go straight to work. Your body acts in strange ways when it is deprived of sleep and I needed to get used to it.

-I devised mind games to play during the race to keep my brain occupied. These included doing my multiplication time’s tables to whatever number I could. Believe me, when you reach your 89 times table it becomes very difficult and also makes you forget about the pain and boredom you are experiencing!

-I did lots of 7 hour training swims in my local swimming pool to get used to the boredom of just swimming up and down…and up and down…and …(all the lifeguards thought I was mad!)

-One week I stayed awake for 60 hours straight to see how my body (and mind) reacted to it

-Physical training- most days I trained for about 5 hours. I didn’t want to do too much as I had have a very hard year in 1997 with lots of long, tough races.

-In the last 2 weeks before the race I did NO training. I wanted to be as rested as possible before ‘the big one’.

The week before the race
I flew out to Monterrey with Antonio Fusaro, a bicycle courier by trade, who was the only other Briton besides myself competing in the deca. He shared the same personal traits as me - impatience, great energy and unbounding enthusiasm for the deca.

Our flight did not start well. We were delayed at Houston and when we finally got the connecting plane I found I had left my expensive, new walkman on the previous flight. Once at Monterrey we were met by the race organiser Jorge, who took us to the race hotel. Unfortunately, a lot of my luggage had not arrived with me in Monterrey. However, there was a week until the start of the race, so I was not overly worried at this stage.
Jorge drove us the 20km to the hotel, in the the middle of Monterrey. I knew it to be an industrial city, and that the mountains that surrounded it served to trap the pollution. I had heard that during the previous decatriathlon the pollution had got so bad that the competitors suffered nose bleeds.
Over the course of the next few days I tried to do as little as possible, watching TV and reading books. My sister Susan (who had agreed to act as my support crew) arrived on the Wednesday. But my luggage still had not. I was starting to get a little concerned. After a few phone calls we found out that the luggage was being held at customs and that we would have to pay $200 to get it. Reluctantly, we agreed to pay and eventually got our stuff.

With the race starting on the Saturday, Thursday and Friday were spent testing out bikes and getting all our equipment and food and drink transported to the race venue, a park called Parque Ninos Hereos. We also attended the pre-race party and press conference. By this stage I felt very bloated, having put on a good 10 pounds in the previous 2 weeks, due to my lack of training.

I was also starting to get very nervous about competing in the toughest endurance race in the world. But I was also extremely excited to be doing something so totally unique and difficult.
The night before the race I slept soundly. I knew it would be the last decent sleep for a while.

RACE DAY
D-day had arrived. I pulled back the curtains to see the weather continued to be cold and wet. The race did not start until midday, so there was time for a bit of breakfast before getting on the coach to take us to the swimming pool. When we arrived there we had to undergo a medical. Everything was perfect. After getting changed into my wetsuit I had about 15 minutes before the start. I took this time to sit on my own, put my music on, and thought about the race. I thought about my family who had sacrificed so much for me. I thought about my beloved dog Daisy, who had died the day before I flew out to Mexico. I also thought about how privileged I was to be fit enough to be able to attempt such a challenge as this. With tears streaming down my face, my sister came over and told me it was time to start. I was as ready as I could be.

The Swim (24 miles-or 1520 lengths of the 25 metre swimming pool!) And so, on the stroke of 12pm, Saturday November 15th we were off. 15 supremely fit athletes, each about to experience the challenge of a lifetime. But in some ways we had done the hardest part. We had made it to the starting line. It had been a huge struggle physically, mentally and financially to get there. But we had. And we were all determined that the sacrifices made would help us to that elusive finishing line.

I soon settled into my pre-race plan of swimming 450 metres front crawl followed by 50 metres breaststroke to use some different muscles. Every 3km I would stop for a drink and an energy bar.

Usually, I absolutely detest swimming. But I chose this day to have the best swim of my life. I imagined myself to being a dolphin, gliding through the water. It really helped. Also, to cope with the boredom, I did my times tables in my head. By 24km I was up to my 87 times table. It certainly helped pass the time!
It was the longest swim of my life, equivalent to swimming the English Channel, but, amazingly I enjoyed it. The only thing that bothered me was the weather. I could hear the rain pelting down on the roof all through the swim, and was not looking forward to the prospect of soon having to cycle in it.

However, on and on I went. Soon I only had 200 lengths to go. I had thought the swim was going to be my worst nightmare, but in fact it turned out to be a wondrous dream.

After 13 hours 37 minutes, and looking like a shrivelled prune I jumped out of the water in 4th place, feeling mightily relieved. After a quick shower and change I began my cycle.

The cycle (1120 miles- or 980 laps of the circuit in the park!)
The weather was atrocious. I decided to cycle for a couple of hours before having an hours sleep. After 2 freezing hours going around the circuit I came into my ‘base camp’ (a little shed on the side of the bike circuit) to try and sleep. But I found I was so hyped up from the swim that I did not sleep a wink. Soon all the other competitors had started cycling. As it was such a small circuit we would be passing each other regularly. Most seemed quite friendly and said ‘hi’, but Pavelka , the Czech athlete would not say anything.

By early afternoon I had my first crisis to deal with. Only 100 miles into the bike leg and I had seemingly ran out of energy. I pulled in for an emergency half hour break. Susan massaged my shoulders, fed me and picked my spirits up.

The rest seemed to the trick as I felt better once I had started cycling again. The weather was terrible still, but I figured it was the same for everyone. I put my walkman on to ease the boredom and to provide a source of motivation.

At 6pm I stopped for dinner. The organisers had provided a 24 hour restaurant on the circuit. I had pasta, chips, chocolate and some cakes. Sheer heaven!

At 9pm disaster happened. We heard there had been an explosion at a nearby factory and that the air had become dangerously polluted. A race marshall ushered us indoors and told us the race would be temporarily halted until the air quality improved. This was a real pain as I just wanted to get on with the race.

However, by 11pm the air quality was safe enough for us to continue. Through the night it was freezing and the rain hammered down. It is so difficult cycling at night, because it is then that you start to question yourself. Why cycle in the dark, cold and wet when you could be in a nice, warm bed. It is very easy to become negative and give in to the temptation of sleep. I managed to keep cycling all through the night. Daylight came and so I treated myself to a delicious breakfast. These little breaks weren’t just important physically, but mentally they gave me something short term to look forward to.

By lunchtime I was in trouble again. I was struggling in the cold and had also developed a terrible saddle sore on my bottom from having sat on my bike too long. It had soon become so painful that it was absolute agony to sit on the saddle. Not very good when I still had 800 miles left to ride!

But I soldiered on, my determination to finish the race far outweighing my natural reaction to quit. By evening time I was still in 4th place. The first 3 were cycling like men possessed. At 9pm I had my nightly medical. The doctor checked my weight, heart rate and blood pressure, to make sure it was safe for me to carry on. It was!

My plan had been to have a sleep between 4am and 5am every morning. However, I found that by 2am I could barely keep my eyes open. I decided to stop early for my sleep.

It did me the world of good as I powered on after my sleep until daylight. My spirits rose further when the weather finally cleared up. The mountains that surround Monterrey, which had been totally obscured by the low, rain clouds, suddenly and magnificently came into view. The sun came out and the temperature rose instantly. I felt 100 times better and for the next few hours I cycled along in a tremendous mood, buoyed by the dramatic change in the weather. I was actually starting to enjoy it!

However, my mood had changed by early evening. I had become tired of Pavelka ignoring me every time I said ‘hello’ to him. It culminated in me losing my temper with him, which is very unusual for me. Unfortunately, the next lap I was called in for my nightly medical. The argument had raised my blood pressure so much that I was not allowed to continue for 30 minutes, by which time it had returned to normal. I was furious at my enforced rest.

I had to have an early sleep again that night. I just could not keep my eyes open so had my precious 1 hour sleep at 2am. Again, it did the trick and I continued with renewed vigour after my rest.

After 3 days of cycling I had just over 300 miles to go. Sure I was tired from lack of sleep and the sheer physical effort of the race, my saddle sore was agony and I was losing weight. But I was hanging in there, taking each bit at a time. I never thought about the finish, just the time until my next break. It gave me something in the short term to look forward to.

I had to laugh when I saw Urbonas, the Lithuanian athlete cycling along with his eyes shut; such was the extent of his tiredness!

The day went quite well until about 9pm, when fatigue overwhelmed me and I was forced to go for an emergency sleep. The lack of sleep was starting to catch up with me.
I couldn’t wait to get off the bike. I felt like I was a prisoner to it and, in my confused and tired state, began to hate it. But I continued on, as I knew my suffering on the bike would soon be over.

And sure enough, by sunrise I was told I only had 50 miles to go. I was still in 4th place but this did not bother me. I was concentrating just on myself.

The magical moment occurred at 12.23pm. I finished my last lap, to great applause and much relief from myself. As I got off the bike I felt very weird. I had not walked for over 4 days and I felt very wobbly.

After my compulsory medical I got changed into my running gear. Only 262 miles to go!

The run (262 miles- 223 laps of the bike course in the opposite direction!) The first few miles were great. The novelty of running after all that time on the bike helped me. However, after 15 miles I was in trouble. My Achilles tendon started to hurt, and the heat began to affect me. My feet had also swollen quite a bit. Susan decided to cut the toe-box out of my shoes to give my feet more room. It worked!

At 10.15pm I finished my 1st marathon. Only 9 more to go!
Throughout the loneliness of the night I continued to run. I had planned to run until I had finished my 2nd marathon, but 7 miles short I was forced to rest, as my Achilles tendon was starting to become a worry. I got so stiff during my rest that on waking I had to walk a lap just to get going again, before breaking into a painful jog.

I kept the same strategy as I had had for the bike ride. Just keep going until the next break. It was my way of dealing with enormity of the race.

After a good morning and afternoon, as soon as nightfall came I ground to a painful halt, 5 laps short of my 4th marathon. I decided to sleep early and then told Susan I would walk the next marathon through the night, to give my Achilles tendon injury a bit of a rest. I tried to sleep but couldn’t. I found it difficult to breathe and broke out into a cold sweat. My body was starting to rebel against the ludicrous demands I was placing on it.
I found walking just as bad. By 6am I was in a real state again. I decided to have my first shower and shave in 6 days. Well, what a difference it made. I also put 3 pairs of socks on to give my feet extra support. I quickly polished off the 5th and 6th marathons in fine style. What a turnaround. My Achilles tendon had swollen a lot more, but apart from that I was OK (relatively speaking).

Towards the end of the 7th marathon I began to have major problems with my quadriceps muscles. The race leader Fabrice, from France, noticed I was in trouble. With a great act of sportsmanship he took time out to get a support he had from his shed to give to me. I was his rival, and I was gaining on him. But as a human being he saw another human being suffering and wanted to help. A supreme act of kindness. With 3 marathons to go I set off again into the darkness of the night. Poor Susan was as tired as me, and had done a superb job of looking after me.

In the early hours of the morning, again I ground to a halt, absolutely exhausted and barely able to move due to my Achilles tendon injury. I was nearly in tears. I just couldn’t see how I could make it to the finish. It seemed such a long way off.
In desperation I took 6 ibuprofen (painkillers) and put on a much larger pair of trainers. My feet had swollen so much that they fitted like a glove!

By this stage I was also feeling dizzy and was suffering from blurred vision. I was also starting to take too many ibuprofen to cope with the pain.

I was still in 4th place, despite being ahead of world record schedule. Unless the others cracked I would stay in 4th. I had desperately wanted to win but barring a miracle, wasn’t going to. This depressed me a little.

During the course of the day I continued to take dangerous amounts of painkillers. I tried catching Pavelka in 3rd, but he was holding me. We did make up however. With 20 miles to go he stopped and gave me a hug. A very noble gesture.

After 8 days exactly, Fabrice crossed the line to finish in a new world record. Seeing him finish made me also think of my finish for the first time. Before, I had not allowed myself to contemplate the finish. It had been too far away.

However, by this stage it was staring me in the face. But it made me go funny in the head. I was confused, anxious and emotional. I just wanted it to be over. But I was in a desperate state. I was hardly moving and my body was racked with pain. I also started hallucinating. All the trees started to have faces and I also saw William Shakespeare’s face in the sky.

And then it happened. Fighting uncontrollable tears the bell sounded indicating I had 1 lap to go. With 1km to go I passed a telephone box. I called my mum and dad in England. But I was unable to talk. I was too overcome with emotion and felt on the verge of blacking out. I decided to walk the final km in an attempt to compose myself and try and comprehend what I was about to achieve.

With 200 metres to go Susan joined me and we walked to the finish holding hands.

Eventually, after 8 days, 6 hours and 14 minutes, I crossed the line to finish the toughest endurance race in the world. I had broken the old world record by 6 hours and set a new British record by some 20 hours.

As I stood there in tears, the crowd didn’t know whether to hug me or keep their distance. I didn’t know too. My mind was fuzzy with a deep routed fatigue. I could not think anymore. I could not move anymore. I had given everything. There was no more left to give.

I was eventually carried to my sleeping bag, where I instantly fell into the deepest sleep of my life. But I had done it. I really had.

Epilogue

It took me 2 years to recover from the race in Mexico. My health suffered from the supreme effort I had given and from the amount of painkillers I consumed. But, despite this I learnt a great deal about myself. I learnt how to keep going though great pain barriers. Too often in life people are scared to push themselves. They put up a barrier. However, it is once you break through that barrier that you discover yourself. Don’t be scared of breaking through that barrier in life. You never know what you might achieve.


16 Rules to Live by…

October 22, 2007 – 6:00 pm

This post was bought to the Inspire and Motivate Section by Heartagram - a fantastic contributor to the Community For Excellence. The original article was found at www.bobparsons.com

Enjoy,
Phil

1. Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we’re in our comfort zone. I hear people say, “But I’m concerned about security.” My response to that is simple: “Security is for cadavers.”

2. Never give up. Almost nothing works the first time it’s attempted. Just because what you’re doing does not seem to be working, doesn’t mean it won’t work. It just means that it might not work the way you’re doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn’t have an opportunity.

3. When you’re ready to quit, you’re closer than you think. There’s an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: “The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed.”

4. With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen, but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be. Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of “undefined consequences.” My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, “Well, Robert, if it doesn’t work, they can’t eat you.”

5. Focus on what you want to have happen. Remember that old saying, “As you think, so shall you be.”

6. Take things a day at a time. No matter how difficult your situation is, you can get through it if you don’t look too far into the future, and focus on the present moment. You can get through anything one day at a time.

7. Always be moving forward. Never stop investing. Never stop improving. Never stop doing something new. The moment you stop improving your organization, it starts to die. Make it your goal to be better each and every day, in some small way. Remember the Japanese concept of Kaizen. Small daily improvements eventually result in huge advantages.

8. Be quick to decide. Remember what the Union Civil War general, Tecumseh Sherman said: “A good plan violently executed today is far and away better than a perfect plan tomorrow.”

9. Measure everything of significance. I swear this is true. Anything that is measured and watched, improves.

10. Anything that is not managed will deteriorate. If you want to uncover problems you don’t know about, take a few moments and look closely at the areas you haven’t examined for a while. I guarantee you problems will be there.

11. Pay attention to your competitors, but pay more attention to what you’re doing. When you look at your competitors, remember that everything looks perfect at a distance. Even the planet Earth, if you get far enough into space, looks like a peaceful place.

12. Never let anybody push you around. In our society, with our laws and even playing field, you have just as much right to what you’re doing as anyone else, provided that what you’re doing is legal.

13. Never expect life to be fair. Life isn’t fair. You make your own breaks. You’ll be doing good if the only meaning fair has to you, is something that you pay when you get on a bus (i.e., fare).

14. Solve your own problems. You’ll find that by coming up with your own solutions, you’ll develop a competitive edge. Masura Ibuka, the co-founder of SONY, said it best: “You never succeed in technology, business, or anything by following the others.” There’s also an old Asian saying that I remind myself of frequently. It goes like this: “A wise man keeps his own counsel.”

15. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are.

16. There’s always a reason to smile. Find it. After all, you’re really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: “We’re not here for a long time; we’re here for a good time.”


“I went running last night”

October 20, 2007 – 2:51 pm

So i went out running last night with two of my mates… they go out running all the time.

I have not been running in over a year.

I have been doing some boxing training, but it is stop start explosive cardio… not the long drawn out continuos cardio of road running. I had boxed earlier that day and was therefore lacking in energy anyway.

I knew this run would be tough.

I had a meal just before the run and as a result before i got to the end fo the road, I had a nasty stich… I kept going. After a mile, i was in a bad way… My legs felt heavy, i had two stiches in my body.

I put my beloved Electro on my ipod and that carried me for a little. I could not believe how tired i was getting.

The fact that both of the other guys seemed so fresh seemed to drain me even more.

I was having will power battles in my mind… “Give up… walk walk walk…” I kept thinking of this forum… I couldn’t let myself be beaten by this run.

Two, three miles… my legs were smashed…

It got so tough… I was exhausted and running along at a solid pace… every 5 seconds, one of those thoughts came into my mind. “There’s no way you can keep this up… it’s too hard… too fast… you have got too far to go”…

With every negative thought, i would smash it away with a positive one… It was gettign harder and harder to do this…

The guys started to draw away… I was digging in, but i just couldn’t keep up…

Miles 4 and 5 were absolute agony… I was desperately trying to keep going and stop the two guys from getting too far ahead…

I turned up a different route back home (up through town)… The lefts and rights seemed to make it a little easier than just running on the one long seafront…

I remember thinking about the CFE.. about the advice I give out everyday to people… You need to put the work in… don’t be slack… you can do anything with a postive attitude.

There was no way I was walking on this run.

At 3 miles i thought i was going to die and i was amazed that i was still in there at 5.5…

Everything was telling me to stop running except for my mind… I kept on pushing…

For the last half a mile i just thought fuck it… And started upping the pace… I was audibly weasing and my legs and arms were all over the place (this was not a technical run)…

As i turned the last corner, one of my mates crossed the road ahead… In the 200 metres up to my front door, i had caught him.

I have run 6 miles before, but it has never ever been such a battle - i cannot explain how hard i found my first run in over a year. 6 miles at pace cleaned me out.

As i stood under a cold shower, I had a big smile on my face…

After 200 metres, at the bottom of my road when the first stich kicked in, i was ready to stop and walk… 6 miles later i was legging it up my road.

This jog may seem like nothing, but it meant something to me…

Peace,
Phil


Dick Hoyt: The World’s Best Dad

October 16, 2007 – 10:26 am

A Latvian member who posts under the name of Pherocharm bought this post to the board about 6 weeks ago. To this day it remains my favourite CFE post.

Every once in a while you see or hear something that deeply moves you; something that stays with you and changes your outlook on life. I guess then it changes you as a person. That is what this article did to me.

I cried over and over when I saw this.

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